How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 04:12

Does not procrastinate.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Can a Trump supporter explain what was wrong with what Bishop Budde said to Donald Trump?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Making more friends is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What toxic behavior has been normalized by society?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What would you do if you found out that someone had broken into your home while you were sleeping?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What I need from you?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What made you feel satisfied about your life today?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is your interpretation of the movie Rocky? What makes it a good film in your opinion?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Where's the Civil War everyone on the left said would happen?
That's it for today.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How far back into your childhood can your remember and what is your favorite memory of that time?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.
Is it true that all men want a woman who looks like an Instagram “model”?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.